Thursday, 25 August 2011

Come and Get Me!!

Or places online where I can be found.

Since I have recently changed my IRL legal name, a lot of my websites and messengers have changed as well. I figured now would be a good time as any to list the places where you can find me. This is not a complete list, but is where I am most active.

Feel free to add me to any messenger, social website, etc that is linked below. If you do, please remember that I am a single parent and am not always at my computer or not able to reply immediately (like, for example, if I'm playing a game to entertain my son or am drawing or whatever). Be courteous and respectful, or don't bother. :P

With all that out of the way, here is where you can find me online.

Social Sites:

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/muirhalleron
Twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/MuirDragonne
Google+: https://plus.google.com/10990678569.....90721262/posts (I'm not active on here, but feel free to add me if you want. If you need an invite, let me know and I'll send you one)
Steam: http://steamcommunity.com/id/MuirDragonne

Art Sites:

ArtRage: http://www2.ambientdesign.com/galle.....mageuser=14292
Deviant Art: http://dragoness-muir.deviantart.com/
ArtSpots: http://muir.artspots.com/ (No longer posting art on this website)
Inkbunny: https://inkbunny.net/Muir
FurAffinity: http://www.furaffinity.net/user/muir/

Q&A sites:

Proust: http://www.proust.com/story/32764/
Youtube: http://www.youtube.com/user/BigenderDragon

Messengers:

MSN: MuirDragonne[at]hotmail.co.uk
Yahoo: MuirDrgaonne[at]yahoo.co.uk

Blog:

Blogspot: http://muirdragonne.blogspot.com/

Thursday, 11 August 2011

Trans* and Genderqueer Categories Part 6

Tonight is the last actual article in this series. It's been fun, and I've learned a thing or two while doing my research for each article.

The final entry is Bigender. Bigendered people may be considered to be part of both the Transgender and Genderqueer categories. This is partly because of what it is and how those who are bigendered live their lives.

Bigendered people are under the Genderqueer umbrella because they are mentally both male and female. Often this manifests itself as "modes". Sometimes a bigendered person will be in "male mode" and will dress, act, feel, and otherwise present themselves as male. Other times they will be in "female mode" and will present as such.

They are under the Transgender category because often, to help with their sense of gender dysphoria, they will undergo some form of gender reassignment. This often includes things such as hormones.

Most bigendered people prefer the opposite  birth gender pronouns. So if the person was born a female, they will prefer that people call them "he", if male, then "she". But this is not always the case and depends on the individual person. If you are in doubt, then ask them which pronouns they prefer. Trust me - they won't mind you asking.

I'm going to end this article with two videos made by bigendered people. The first one is by Brin and she talks about dysphoria. In the second video, Sydney gives a very good illustration about what Bigender is.


Wednesday, 10 August 2011

Trans* and Genderqueer Categories Part 5

Only two more articles in this "in-depth" series to go! Have you enjoyed the articles so far? Have you learned anything? I hope the answer to both questions is "yes".

Today I'm going to attempt to say what the term "GenderQueer" is and how people who identify as such see themselves. I say "attempt", because it can get quite confusing.

Genderqueer, in a nutshell, is non-binary. People who are genderqueer do not identify as either a man or a woman, but rather a mixture of the two or totally outside the gender binary "norms". People who identify as Genderqueer may think of themselves as being both a man and a woman, neither male nor female, moving between genders, or being part of a third gender.

Some genderqueers go through transition in some degree or another by taking hormones or having surgery (either top or bottom or both) to make their body outwardly look the way that they feel in their minds. Some don't. Both are okay. Some genderqueers prefer to be addressed by gender-neutral pronouns such as "ze", "hir", "they", "their". Others prefer the more conventional binary pronouns such as "he" and "her". It's really up to personal choice.

Genderqueer is seen as freedom from conventional binary genders that society has placed on us. Everyone is seen as equal, because no one is better than any one else.

I'll leave you with a quote from genderqueer person:

"I don't know if I'm male or female or both or neither. All I know is that when I'm filling out a form and it makes me choose "male" or "female", I really want to tell it to f*ck off."